Off Campus: The Greenest Green Flag in TV?
Ariel and Morgan cover the surprisingly consent-forward, but still totally hot scene where Hannah finally achieves orgasm with a partner following her assault. They debate the importance of realism vs. aspiration, how assault survivors can regain agency, and why seduction doesn’t have to be so serious.
Obsession (2025): The Horror of Non-Consent | Intimacy & Stunt Coordinator Jen Albert
Obsession’s Intimacy and Stunt Coordinator Jen Albert joins Ariel and Morgan to discuss her work on the hit film. From the haunting non-consensual scene to the brick-smashing scene, they get behind-the-scenes info you won’t want to miss.
Pose: Directing Intimacy & Queer Love | Co-Creator Steven Canals
Steven Canals, co-creator of Pose, joins Ariel and Morgan to discuss his revolutionary FX show. He shares his inspiration for Pose, how it got rejected nearly 200 times, and his first directing experience on the historical love scene between Pray Tell and Ricky. They also discuss his experience working with intimacy coordinators when they were still new and how they continue to benefit the industry. Plus, he reveals two interactions with fans that have stayed with him to this day.
Sense8 Finale: Going Out with a (Cluster) Bang | Sex Scene Breakdown [Bonus]
Steven Canals, co-creator of Pose, joins Ariel and Morgan to discuss his revolutionary FX show. He shares his inspiration for Pose, how it got rejected nearly 200 times, and his first directing experience on the historical love scene between Pray Tell and Ricky. They also discuss his experience working with intimacy coordinators when they were still new and how they continue to benefit the industry. Plus, he reveals two interactions with fans that have stayed with him to this day.
Sense8: The Psychic Orgy | How the Cluster Sex Scenes Got Made
Ariel and Morgan reveal how the first cluster sex scene got made throughout the entire shoot and across continents with no rehearsals. They share the actors’ experiences, how an intimacy coordinator could have helped, and the complicated consent questions that come with sharing a psyche with seven other people. Plus: intimacy coordinator hacks for real-life brides.
Dicks: The Musical | The Incest Factor Explained
Ariel and Morgan dig into the outrageous twin sex scene at the heart of A24’s Dicks: The Musical. They unpack why deliberately unrealistic, over-the-top intimacy can land as comedy rather than shock. Expect talk of puppets, walking 69s, queer representation, and the strange craft behind staging something this absurd.
Secretary: What It Gets Right About BDSM | A Sub Is Born
Ariel and Morgan break down the sex scenes in Secretary and what the film actually understands about BDSM, power, and consent. They dig into the famous, barely-touching desk scene and why restraint can be far more charged than explicit contact. Along the way they weigh what the movie gets right about a submissive’s arc against where its fantasy blurs real-world dynamics.
Brokeback Mountain: No Lube, No Warning | Intimacy Breakdown
Ariel and Morgan break down the intimacy in Brokeback Mountain, from the abrupt tent scene to everything the choreography leaves unspoken. They talk about how the film changed queer representation while raising real questions about safety, preparation, and what a coordinator would do differently today. It’s an honest look at a landmark love story and the logistics hiding just outside the frame.
PEN15: Hormones Gone Rogue
Ariel and Morgan dig into PEN15 and the show’s uncanny approach to adolescent desire, where grown actresses play thirteen-year-olds navigating first crushes and confusing new urges. They talk through why the series handles puberty, shame, and self-discovery with more honesty than most so-called grown-up sex scenes. It’s a conversation about how awkward, mortifying, and weirdly tender it is to be a hormone-fueled kid figuring your body out.
Buffy the Vampire Slayer: The Hardcore Vanilla Sex Scenes
Ariel and Morgan sink their teeth into Buffy the Vampire Slayer and the show’s surprisingly intense approach to sex without ever showing much at all. They break down the charged, building-collapsing chemistry between Buffy and Spike and why the tension of two enemies who can’t stop lands harder than most explicit scenes. It’s a look at how a monster-of-the-week series snuck in some of TV’s most memorable hardcore-but-vanilla heat.
Barbarella: Sci-Fi, Striptease & Orgasms Against the Machine
Ariel and Morgan blast off into Barbarella and its gleefully campy vision of sex in the far future, starting with that iconic zero-gravity striptease over the opening credits. They dig into the Excessive Machine scene, where a device built to kill by pleasure meets its match, and what the film’s playful attitude toward desire says about power and liberation. It’s a look at how a psychedelic sci-fi romp turned orgasms into a weapon against the machine.
Booksmart: Diving Into Intimacy with Brooke M. Haney
Ariel and Morgan are joined by intimacy coordinator Brooke M. Haney to dig into Booksmart and the craft behind staging its awkward, tender teen hookups. They talk through what an intimacy coordinator actually does on set and how careful choreography lets a coming-of-age comedy feel honest instead of exploitative. It’s a warm, nerdy look at consent, communication, and the real work that goes into making on-screen intimacy safe.
Insecure: The Sex Scenes Have Range | From Nightmare to Nirvana
Ariel and Morgan break down how Insecure runs the full spectrum of on-screen sex, from cringe-inducing disasters to genuinely blissful connection. They compare the show’s most awkward, deflating encounters against its warmest, most satisfying ones and what that range says about real dating and desire. It’s a celebration of a series that treats Black intimacy as messy, funny, and worthy of the whole emotional map.
Heated Rivalry: Queer Joy & The Craft of Intimacy with Chala Hunter
Intimacy coordinator Chala Hunter joins Ariel and Morgan to break down the most talked-about scenes from “Heated Rivalry” — on-set stories, the craft behind the intimacy, and why queer joy took center stage.
She’s Gotta Have It: Church, But Make It Gay
Ariel and Morgan get into She’s Gotta Have It and its frank, unapologetic portrait of a woman juggling multiple lovers on her own terms. They zero in on the show’s queer, almost worshipful approach to desire and how it treats pleasure like something sacred rather than shameful. It’s a conversation about sexual freedom, self-definition, and what happens when intimacy gets its own kind of church.
The Handmaiden: Rewriting Sapphic Sex on Screen
Ariel and Morgan get lost in The Handmaiden and Park Chan-wook’s lush, twisty take on sapphic desire and deception. They unpack the film’s most talked-about scenes, from the fingerbell fitting to the mirrored finale, and debate whether its gaze empowers the women or lingers a beat too long. It’s a conversation about pleasure, trust, and what it takes to rewrite queer sex on screen without slipping into the male fantasy it’s critiquing.
Fifty Shades of Grey: What It Gets Wrong About BDSM
Ariel and Morgan take on Fifty Shades of Grey and pull apart everything the blockbuster gets backwards about kink, consent, and control. They contrast the movie’s glossy, controlling romance with what real BDSM communities actually prize, from negotiation and aftercare to enthusiastic consent. It’s a frank critique of how a cultural phenomenon confused abuse with a red room and set a lot of newcomers up with the wrong idea.
Heated Rivalry: Why It Gets Queer Sex Right [BONUS]
In this bonus episode, Ariel and Morgan gush over Heated Rivalry and why its enemies-to-lovers hockey romance nails queer intimacy so well. They dig into the slow-burn tension between two rival players and how the sex scenes prioritize emotional stakes, vulnerability, and genuine want over spectacle. It’s a love letter to a story that treats gay desire as tender, hungry, and worth taking seriously.
Eyes Wide Shut: A Christmas Orgy
Ariel and Morgan unmask Eyes Wide Shut and Kubrick’s dreamlike descent into jealousy, temptation, and one very ritualistic Christmas party. They break down the infamous masked orgy and debate whether the film is genuinely erotic or deliberately cold and unsettling by design. It’s a conversation about fantasy, marriage, and how a holiday movie became one of cinema’s strangest meditations on desire.
Carol: The Motel Scene with Amanda Holland
Ariel and Morgan welcome guest Amanda Holland to swoon over Carol and its aching, meticulously crafted 1950s romance. They linger on the pivotal motel scene, unpacking how the film builds tension through longing glances and restraint before finally letting its lovers connect. It’s a tender look at how period repression, cinematography, and slow-burn desire combine to make one of the most quietly devastating sex scenes on screen.